All your duties and expenses depend entirely on the agreement with the bride.
That’s why we recommend your first task: make some coffee—and invite the young woman over. It’s time for a loooong conversation. Check with the bride to see what she expects of you. If you are unable to carry out any of the duties, it is better to be open with the bride right away; you will surely find a compromise.

Your bride-to-be might want a surprise bachelorette party—meaning you’d organize everything yourself—or she might want to be involved in the planning. She might expect you to play a major financial role, or she might simply need you to provide moral support. It all depends on her wishes and what you agree upon together. Clearly define your duties and who is paying for what, and make sure to write it all down.

