Most common maid of honor mistakes

Below, we present information gathered from real brides who shared with us the issues they experienced with their maids of honor.

1. “She didn’t realize the responsibility that comes with being a godmother.”

We know the bachelorette party is your favorite part and that you can’t wait to organize it, but being the maid of honor means more than just planning that event—it entails being constantly available to the bride, and for months on end. Get ready for a steady stream of messages, calls, and coffee dates that turn into wedding planning sessions.

2. “She realized her wishes and ideas”

If the bride-to-be wants a bachelorette party without a stripper—or perhaps a movie marathon with popcorn—respect her wishes rather than prioritizing your own. Such a party might seem boring to you, but if that is what the bride wants, listen to her.

3. “She got herself into debt, and it wasn’t necessary.”

You surely want to surprise your bride with the most beautiful gift, but it doesn’t have to be one that puts you in debt. Plan your expenses wisely and avoid finding yourself unable to cover all the costs.

4. “She overdid it with hard liquor.”

Save the hard liquor for your bachelorette party; the night before the wedding is not the time for it. Of course, you’ll want to have a drink and celebrate, but don’t overdo it. There is nothing worse than nausea, a headache, and other hangover symptoms on the very morning you’re supposed to shine—feeling fresh and rested for everything that lies ahead.

5. “She was only thinking about hot guys.” Weddings are the perfect opportunity to hook up with a guy, but if you are the maid of honor, your priority must be acting as the bride’s right hand. Of course, the bride wouldn’t mind if you met someone at her wedding, but don’t let that be your only focus. Even if that is on your mind, keep it to yourself and forget about saying: “I can’t wait to hook up with someone at your wedding.”